Lothair Pendleton, L.C.S.W.

Lothair Pendleton, L.C.S.W.


Many years of practice and observation have revealed an apparent theme – no one completely escapes pain, or at least, some difficulty with surmounting life’s problems. Also presented for my review has been the question, “What is normal?” Do we strive for some vague notion of ideal? Or do we reach for an ill-defined standard of healthy function? Out of this exercise comes the realization that one approach does not work for all.

It needs to be clearly understood that each individual has unique challenges and needs; the micro-world that surrounds each of us is also unique to each of us. It also holds true that each individual has their own way of seeking to overcome difficulty.

With these things in mind, and as a therapist, I find it vital to leave any treatment agendas or preconceived notions outside the door and the therapeutic relationship. The therapist’s position, if you so choose, is to help the patient find out where they are, meet you there, and help you with what lies ahead.

My first concern in beginning the therapeutic journey is to ease any immediate pain that may be present. From there, the team of therapist and client can proceed, on the basis of mutual trust, to form realistic and workable goals. Part of this may include building upon strength and skills that already exist or that have worked with prior experiences. If change, new skills, or a different perspective is needed it can be done within the safety of this relationship.


Those of us who have experienced the death of a loved one can speak to the difficulty of the journey through grief. However, grief can also occur with other losses. In fact, a closer look might expose threads of grief running through virtually everyone’s life experiences.

Since society has provided very limited, formal support for the individual caught in the clutches of grief, the client-therapist relationship can offer a safe space in which to begin or continue the work of grief. This can also hold true for losses that may have occurred years in the past. Each loss follows its own unique course. The therapist’s role is to help support the pace, style and pathway best suited to the individual. In cases where grief remains unevolved, the therapist may act as a companion or assistant toward the completion of the tasks of grieving.

Education and Licensure

Master's of Social Work, University of Utah, June 1987
Bachelor of Science, Psychology, University of Utah, June 1979
Bachelor of Science, Mass Communication, University of Utah, Aug. 1979
Gerontology Certificate, Weber State College, 1982
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, State of Utah, January 1994

Clinical Experience

I first entered the realm of others' difficulties and challenges several months after receiving my BS in psychology. I worked as a case manager for Salt Lake County Aging Services. This entailed evaluating (as a team with a Registered Nurse) the mental and physical health of senior citizens. This also involved an assessment of social support. Appropriate services and resources were coordinated with the prime goal of preserving as much independence as possible. This 5 1/2-year experience exposed me to a full range of aging issues, including related family structure and dynamics.

While working in long-term care, I also worked with Family Support Center in Midvale. This entailed counseling couples, individuals, taking on-call for the crisis nursery and holding parenting classes.

While working in long-term care, I held a part-time job with Family Support Center in Midvale. This entailed serving and counseling couples, individuals, taking on-call for the crisis nursery and holding parenting classes.

Over the span of 23 years, I worked in three different Intermountain hospitals. Hospital experience included psychiatric crisis and level 1 trauma as well as oncology, neurology, and orthopedics. From 1993 through 2009 I led Bereavement and other support groups. After retirement from Intermountain Health Care (end of 2010), I worked part-time with two different home health and hospice agencies for about a five-year span.

I now find myself in my favorite job, working at Corner Canyon Counseling and Psychological Services. I have learned that I love working with a wide variety of patients and a wide variety of treatment specialties. I am continually learning new skills and expanding my horizons. I will always love working with the aging population; however, after my long career, who could have guessed I would finally find that I love working with adolescents and young adults?

Area of Specialty

Helping People With

Adolescent Issues
Caregiver Issues
Dissociative Disorders/DID
Grief and Loss
Substance Abuse
Couples Therapy (including non-traditional)
Parenting Education
Issues of Aging
Organic Disorders
Personality Disorders
Sexual Disorders

Trained In

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Insight Oriented Therapy
Problem Solving
Solution Focused Therapy

Ages Treated